This example helped me realize how risky it is to underestimate anyone or anything

To mark this milestone, I wanted to share one of my most important learnings during this time. After university, I was at a crossroads. Compared to Europe, people were rude, the city less clean, with both food and entertainment options lacking. In the beginning, I would often look fondly at different cities fantasizing about one day leaving Shenzhen for one of them.
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Gisela:
How can I stop being a gold digger?
(30 November 2016)

Gisela:
I'm thinking about giving some of this stuff away to the needy so they can have a great Christmas.
(30 November 2016)

Gisela:
I was thinking last night, and I feel bad about it because I've been doing this for 8 months now and literally everything that I have was paid for by men.
(30 November 2016)

Gisela:
Seriously, I need to stop this because it's gone on way too long.
(30 November 2016)

Karyl:
If he didn t do this to me I m pretry sure something would ve happened between us but he keeps on confusing me and I m unsure why he does this sometimes.
(30 November 2016)

Karyl:
Walks past me like he doesn t even know me.
(30 November 2016)

Karyl:
Sometimes he ll blatantly stare at me when he knows I m looking and sometimes I ll catch him staring and he ll look away.and sometimes he just completely ignores me.
(30 November 2016)

Karyl:
He s made it pretty obvious he thinks I m goodlooking, sometimes he s very forward with me and will come up to me, hug me, wink and stare at me.
(30 November 2016)

Miguelina:
I'm thinking about asking my former high school teacher out on a date thoughts?
(30 November 2016)

Miguelina:
She was my freshman English teacher and I just had the biggest crush on her but more or less got over her because I knew we couldn't be together then.
(30 November 2016)