It was never anything I thought I would have to defend within a relationship

Defending my blackness as a mixed race person has been an ongoing endeavor for the majority of life. He quickly attempted to laugh off the situation and wanted me to move past it, but I carried it with me all day. Being bi-racial allows for people to see my identity through their own lens and at times judge my culture on how they see fit.
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Zelda:
Would you be okay with a girlfriend going out of town to stay at her ex boyfriends (who is her sons birth dad) house for 4 days?
(1 September 2016)

Zelda:
They started talking and now she s going to stay AT his house for 4 days he also broke up with his girlfriend this week before her getting there.
(1 September 2016)

Zelda:
This guy bailed on her when she was pregnant and hasn t seen the kid for 6 years.
(1 September 2016)

Kyra:
Poll: How do you get over a crush?
(1 September 2016)

Kyra:
It's illegal and why would he like a 15 year old anyways?
(1 September 2016)

Kyra:
Every time I'm near him I try to ignore him but he makes me start to like him even more.
(1 September 2016)

Kyra:
I started like him since I was 5 I'm 15 now and He's 22 I know it'll never work out but I like him so much I sometimes imagine that I was older and then we could be together.
(1 September 2016)

Tillie:
May I flush the toilet?
(1 September 2016)

Tillie:
So I was taking a dump, and now that I have finished unloading my bowels and wiping, I was wondering if it was acceptable for me to touch the lever.
(1 September 2016)

Selma:
Why hasn't Dwayne Wade moved his family out of the war zone?
(1 September 2016)