We are in fact hard wired to be resistant to change

It is all around us, in our personal and work lives and it is within us. From the time we are born until we die, our life evolves and we grow. Change is necessary and inevitable. However, we need to acknowledge that change is hard at an individual level. Our brain is wired to minimise threat and risks.
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Fannie:
She said no and now that I'm older I feel like garbage...the girl and I are still friends I've even drunkenly apologized a couple of times.
(14 October 2016)

Fannie:
We never had sex and I never physically forced myself on her...but I feel like I am considered a rapist.
(14 October 2016)

Fannie:
When I was 16 this girl and I used to do things when we were drunk.
(14 October 2016)

Ruthie:
I am pregnant by a nearly 22 year old boy who is unfit to be a parent, who lives with his family who are also unfit to care for children?
(14 October 2016)

Ruthie:
He, as well as his family which he lives with, are all very unfit to have children because they smoke marijuana, cigarettes, and drink in front of them and think it's okay.
(14 October 2016)

Ruthie:
I am pregnant a 22 year old boy (he does not deserve to be called a man, so I refuse to) who told me all the right things, but turned out to be a lying, unfaithful piece of garbage.
(14 October 2016)

Fatimah:
My husbands mother refuses to accept me, into the family because I have two daughters from a previous relationship?
(14 October 2016)

Mittie:
I have a boyfriend, but I think this guy is cute?!?
(14 October 2016)

Mittie:
Would it be okay to talk to him?
(14 October 2016)

Mittie:
He stares at me a lot, but it's also Bc I stare at himmmmm.
(14 October 2016)